I know I haven't posted in about a week now. The day after I gave my lecture I became sick (not malaria, thankfully). Today was my first day feeling somewhat “normal.” Despite my maladies, however, I was still able to enjoy the long Easter weekend, a four-day holiday here in Nigeria. We joke that Nigerians have far too many holidays (a consequence of balancing and pleasing the people of two separate religions).
On Friday Nikki and I went to the Jos museum shops. As we made our way to the individual shops, we could hear the loud buzzing of fruit bats in the mango trees above us. If you’ve ever been in the south when the cicadas are in full swarm, nesting in the trees, then you have some idea of the sound these bats make, only louder and deeper. The bats are huge. They are about the size of a crow, and they all hang from the mango trees, their sheer numbers bowing the limbs as they settle in for an afternoon nap. The bats will linger here for some time, at least until the mangoes are eaten and they must migrate onward to more fertile grounds.
The museum shops were very quaint. They are like little huts, scattered here and there along the trail leading to the history museum. They have all sorts of tribal apparel and gadgets that they sell. As we made are way through the shops, looking at the tribal masks and leather sandals, we came upon an old hut that was covered with paintings. The whole hut was full of oiled canvases, bright green and blues spattered up and down the rafters with deep, colorful hints of reds, oranges and purples. The woman had myriad interpretive collections - some very realistic, while others resembled the
wide influences of Van Gogh and Monet. The paintings were truly beautiful. All of them were very dark, with a bright flourishing of color, as if life were springing off the canvases out of the darkness. I intend to make another visit to this woman’s shop before I leave and purchase a painting or two. Nikki pointed out my natural attraction toward the green and blue tones that tend to dominate my own paintings.
That evening we stopped by Blessings home and she made us vegetable soup with Semol (a starchy corn meal). It was fun watching her make the soup in her make-shift kitchen outside on the balcony. The soup was very good, and it was great seeing her and her boys.
On Saturday, our friend Rotex took us on a hike to Sherri Hills. Sherri Hills is a rock quarry on the edge of town, nestled up against the mountains that cradle the city of Jos to the West. We climbed a rock formation called Dogg Magog. Rotex couldn’t tell us what it meant, but it sounded menacing nonetheless. And it proved to be a pretty tough climb.
About an hour later, we reached the top. It was beautiful looking down at the city of Jos that spread out before us. Even with the dust and haze obscuring most of our view, it was still a wonderful site looking down on Africa from the heights of the mountains. I’ve pictured moments like this for many years now. And even though my sweat and aching hands took me out of the would-be “cinematic moment,” I still had an overwhelming feeling that I was living
some dream that has long awaited me. We lingered at the top for
some time, eating PB&J sandwiches and
enjoying the cool breeze that comes with higher elevations. We chatted for a while, talking about our families and our future dreams before making the trip back down the rocks where the van waited to take us back into the city.
On Easter day we were invited to Nurse Jane’s house, a woman that works closely with Dr. Chris as he consults with his
patients. We sat in her home with her husband, three children and some family members. We sat back and played with the children as we enjoyed a warm African beer, a pastime I’ve grown to enjoy quite a bit. I forced myself to eat the food that Jane graciously prepared for us, even though my stomach was not in any place to be eating food. The meal was great, despite my queasy stomach.
Later that evening we met the medical students I lectured to last week. Dr. Chris gave them money to plan an Easter celebration at Faith Alive so that we could get to know the students, and we could also share a little about ourselves. This was another meal my stomach was demanding I turn down. But out of politeness, I forced myself to eat again, an action I came to regret later that night as I was doubled over the toilet, wishing I could throw up.
Our time with the medical students was really good, probably one of the most memorable moments so far. They asked us several questions, ranging from our educational background to our impressions of Nigeria and the culture. It was the first time I was able to formulate my thoughts into words.
I’ve lived in Harlem for three years now. I’ve grown accustomed to being a minority in a community dominated by African-Americans and Dominicans. So, coming here was not a far stretch from home. What I wasn’t aware of was that during those three years I have allowed the stereotypes of my community in Harlem to entrench my view of the true character of the global black community. Coming here, I was afraid of having nothing in common with the people of Nigeria, a fear that was quickly dissolved the moment I arrived. People here are so welcoming and so generous. A generosity I don’t see in the US, even in the church. I find that our common faith unites us, as well as our desire to serve those who are poor and under served. My racial interpretations and boundaries have been expanded, and in some sense dissolved. When I think of the friends I’ve made since I’ve been here, their skin color does not factor into my thoughts of them. In fact, you kind of forget about it after awhile. You only notice it when you see the random white person on the street, and you see how out of place they look.
My trip here was worth it merely for that discovery. The ability to see people through new eyes, being able to see what unites us and not what divides us or makes us different, is a gift I didn’t really expect to receive on my journey. But, it’s an unexpected pleasure that I am grateful for.
Monday I spent the day sleeping, recovering from the weekend and regaining some of my strength from being sick, trying to re-energize myself for another week of work. Thankfully I’m feeling better, and I’ve been able to get some things done on this nutrition project.
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